TOXIC RELATIONSHIP!!HOW TO EXIT it

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Is your relationship making you unhappy? Does your partner’s care border on controlling? Even picture perfect relationships may hide emotional abuse which over time hinder person’s self-esteem and strenght .

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People go about bragging about love, not actually knowing that love is deeper than anything else. The question is why been in a relationship where there is no mutual understanding ?, where your heart detest so much? ,where you don’t feel like yourself?,where you don’t value yourself anymore?, where you lack interesting hobbies and life ?, where concentration is difficult and your work is impacted? ,where you avoid people and feel alone ?,where you feel scared of being trapped ?where you are been used as a punching bag? ,all the time quarrelling and fighting. I don’t think i will be able to indulge myself in such whereby the other person beat me or trash me like dirt, it is not done .lets come of it , we are in a new age society whereby you solely have the right to associate with whosoever you want ,nobody dares to force you to be in a relationship with him or her else you are been been manipulated.

Engaging yourself in any relationships depends on your own perspective,how you view that person , your intakes ,your aim, or if your been drunk in love,. normally, i used to ask People why they are in a relationship ,Look out for their responses. ” i date because i want to satisfy my sexual urge ” i date because the other person is beautiful , she’s curvy, wow her physical appearances is super B. Wow he’s so handsome he got broad shoulder ,he dresses well ,his appearance is super B too, ” i date too because the other party is intelligent and speaks fluent. And so many of them, there are many things attached to it and thats exactly where the fault comes from whereby you see people jumping from one relationship to another with no ends .No matter your own reasons if you don’t date from heart and have that person in your heart you actually dating for nothing, what really matters is the character, i advice you to go for someone far more than just been a pretty face and handsome face, And be ready to exit when it becomes toxic. Don’t tell me you’ll continue to be in such toxic One because of love or your own selfish gain. Have a thorough check especially when your looking for your missing rib choose wisely to avoid heart breaking and stories that touches the heart

A relationship whereby you had to do all sorts of things like so many abortions in the name of love or personal gain that’s totally a bad one and a toxic One indeed i bet you the person doesn’t love you at all he’s only using you as sex pet .he doesn’t have your best interest at heart forget those sweet talk he use to tell you to fool you ,wise up now and choose what’s good for you now and don’t ever lower your standard for anyone..ladies are mostly the victims in a toxic relationship.

Dating suppose to be mutual between the two parties, its kind of intimacy going deeper ,deep within yourself ,then you should ask yourself if that person deserve you, if its something you won’t regret in the future, don’t ever lower your standard for whosoever , it depends on your own perspective, it’s best to make the intentions known initially so you’ll know your stand. You could be attracted or infatuated to someone merely on physical appearances but i think love is deeper than that ,you have to love from your deepest soul not just merely saying it .. i know quit well that girls are moved by what men can do and Men are solely on outward appearance and inside too , so any man that comes your way and says he likes you because you are beautiful ,remember your more than just a beautiful lady, there supposed to be something unique he sees in you. you Need to be in a relationship that is beautiful and healthy whereby both party reciprocates their love ,where there is mutual understanding,respect, growing each other both physical and spiritually and have love. if a situation arises why not sit down and talk it out ,

When there’s humiliation,consent criticism and put downs ,shutting down of communication,withdrawal of affection,cheating or flirting with other People ,sarcastic or rude tone of voice,unreasonable jealous ,guilt trips making everything your fault ,using money to control , isolating you from family and friends ,always fighting and beating. Come out of it now it’s a toxic One you don’t deserve to be treated like that .

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As a matter of fact Girls are emotional sometimes so try hugging and kissing them at fore head and Look into their eyes and tell HER “i love you baby.. Ladies bear in mind too that sometimes guys want you to understand, that they are the One that have you only you and that’s all they are overly jealous . they like to take over authority so it’s better to everything down both pride and be sorry for whatever the case may be ,Look into his eyes and say baby I’m sorry i love you kiss him and hug him tight ,if you do your best and its not working ,don’t carry grudges say out your mind and exit if possible don’t wait thinking they Will change because you are not God That change person.

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However i think its better to break your heart by leaving rather than having that person break your heart everyday you are with them , your allowed to terminate toxic relationship and to walk away from People who hurt you , you don’t owe anybody an explanation for taking care of yourself, don’t ever let the fear of being alone keep you in a toxic relationship. Accept responsibility for your part ,no matter what ,your partner is not the only person in the partnership so you Play a part and you are accountable for that role .

Hey beautiful !!!Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you wont allow your self to be treated badly in a toxic relationship because you worth more #remember nobody is worth stressing over , move on leave People behind ,go find your self the world is yours ,do things that make you happy and sound in mind

Finally don’t allow toxic relationship to affect your living ,live the best of your life and enjoy every bit of it,choose someone that Will add value TO your life, choose wisely and if you notice it’s not healthier and not something you can do again quit it . its a serious threat to mental Health ,it can actually lead to feelings of low self worth , helplessness,fear , anxiety , depression, insecurity ,you Will realise that you two have develop unhealthy behaviours and treat each other disrespectfully, for the facts it breeds negativity ,it’s hard for for you to be happy ,you often feels like there is a dark rain cloud following you where ever you go and making you see the worst in your self because spending time with someone so negative Will make you have a negative attitude. After all ,you Will definitely become like the company you keep .so avoid such and find your self a healthy and happy one you deserve more

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